A documentary series about the conversations we never had.
WHAT IS UNSAID?UNSAID is a small, independent documentary series about real conversations between people who matter to each other; parents and adult children, siblings, long-term partners and close friends.It’s about those moments where two people live through the same experience and walk away with completely different memories of what was said, what was meant, and how it felt.This is not therapy, and it’s not a reality show. There are no tricks, big reveals or “gotcha” moments.It’s a calm, guided space to talk, listen, and maybe hear each other’s stories in a slightly new light; sometimes moving, sometimes surprising, and sometimes even funny.If you’ve ever thought, “I wish we could actually talk about that again" or "I wonder what they really thought”, UNSAID might be for you.
WHO WE'RE LOOKING FORWe're currently inviting expressions of interest from:✅ Adult children (approx. 22+) willing to reflect on their upbringing, family dynamics, and key emotional moments✅ Parents who are open to sharing what raising their child was really like – the good bits, the hard bits, the mistakes, and the love (even when it hasn’t always been said out loud).✅ Sibling pairs (or other close family members) who’ve been through things together, big or small, and feel there’s more to say, or more to understand, about what those moments meant.✅ Close friends who’ve been through something together; love, loss, change, loyalty, a big turning point, where feelings or meanings didn’t always line up.✅ Contributors who may want to support the project in other ways (filmmakers, editors, psychologists, location owners, funders)You don’t need to be a performer or a “natural storyteller”. Just someone with a real relationship and a genuine willingness to explore, listen, and be heard.
ABOUT FILMINGWe keep things simple, respectful and low pressure.• Time commitment
Each filmed conversation takes around 60–90 minutes plus some time beforehand to settle in.• Where we film
Most interviews are conducted in Sydney. If you're based elsewhere, you're still very welcome to express interest for future filming or other options.• Not everything will be released
Not every conversation will appear in the final series. Some stories may be used in part, some not at all. Either way, we’ll keep you informed about how (or if) your interview will be used.• Emotional safety matters
You’re never pressured to answer anything you’re not comfortable with. We can pause, skip a question, change direction, or stop at any time.• Consent & release
Before filming, we’ll explain everything in plain language and answer any questions. You’ll only sign a release once you're fully comfortable.• The end result
Some stories may appear in the UNSAID documentary series. Others may help shape future episodes or remain private. We’ll always let you know how your conversation is being used.
OUR PROMISE TO YOUEvery story is different; sometimes funny, surprising, emotional, or all of the above.Whatever yours holds, we’ll treat it with care and curiosity.You’re in control of what you share. If you're ever unsure, we’ll slow down, talk it through or stop. There's no pressure to go anywhere you don't want to.
THE STORY BEHIND UNSAIDDuring COVID, both of my parents chose voluntary assisted dying (VAD) in Victoria. We had time. We knew what was coming.And still, so much was left unspoken.I’ll never fully know how they experienced some of the moments we lived through together. And they’ll never fully know how I experienced those same moments.Even when we’re in the same room, even when we love each other, we all live inside our own version of reality.I never really asked how they saw me. What they carried. What they were proud of. What they regretted. Whether they felt they got it right.That’s a big part of why I’m making UNSAID.It’s a documentary series about parents, adult children, siblings and close friends; people with shared histories but different truths. Not the neat, polished version of relationships. The real version, where what happened, what hurt, what helped, and what was never quite said all sit side by side.My parents’ ending was peaceful. But the silence before it stays with me. UNSAID is, in some ways, an attempt to create the kind of conversations I wish we’d had.
BE A PART OF ITIf UNSAID resonates with you and you’d like to know more about being involved as a participant or contributor, we’d love to hear from you.Click below to share a few details. It’s just an expression of interest with no commitment.